Teen Calls Aunt Out At Dinner For Having Favorite Kid

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    Font - AITA for pointing out my aunt has a favorite kid at a family dinner? My Aunt Mara (45f) has two kids. Reese (13f) and Lara (9f). Mara has always clearly preferred Lara. Reese always knew it too. My aunt always makes sure Lara can do the extra curricular's she wants to do, she lets her drop out at any time, even if she's paid in advance, she gives her the birthday she wants every year, and in general she's more affectionate and interested in what Lara is up to. With Reese, she pushed her i
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    Font - because Aunt Mara babysat me for my parents while they worked and then I just had to wait at her house until my parents got home so we could save on electric bills and stuff. I once asked Aunt Mara why Reese couldn't do something she wanted to do and she told me they didn't have the money for it. Reese never got to do another one but Lara has several. Soccer, dance, art and swim right now. But she's also done basketball, photography, gymnastics (which really upset Reese because she always
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    Font - In the last year and a half Reese has just decided to say fi everyone. She's definitely weighed down by it all. We talk about it because she said I'm the only one who acknowledges it. But I have definitely noticed. We were all gathered for a family dinner Sunday (it was my grandparents birthday this week so the family decided to celebrate Sunday) and Reese was in a really bad mood. Aunt Mara told her she was bringing down the mood and Reese got up and left the table. Aunt Mara said she di
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    Font - blatant favoritism Reese would be happier. My aunt and parents were pissed I would bring it up, my grandparents asked what I meant. Aunt Mara said I didn't know what I was talking about and Reese is such a drama queen. I told my grandparents what I meant and they were shocked. Aunt Mara said Reese never wanted to do anything. Grandma remembered how often Reese would ask to do gymnastics. My parents told me it wasn't the correct time or place to bring it up and I embarrassed Aunt Mara. AIT
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    Rectangle - 1 Award NTA. As someone who was the least favorite child, I respect you for speaking up on it and acknowledging it. I'm sure she's used to being told she's sensitive or making things up when she tries to bring it up, so she probably feels validated knowing she isn't crazy. G Reply 4 2k 3 + ...
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    Rectangle - Special_Koala_1093 · 9h Partassipant [1] NTA. If she was embarrassed, she probably does it knowingly, knows it is looked down upon but still doesn't change a thing. Good for you for standing up for your cousin. G Reply 2.6k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - breathingnitrogen · 9h Partassipant [1] Your aunt disgusts me. You're NTA, and my heart goes out to Reese. 6 Reply 1 3.7k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - _ewan_ · 9h 3 2 Awards My parents told me it wasn't the correct time or place to bring it up and I embarrassed Aunt Mara. NTA - your aunt's behaviour is what embarrassed her, and it's going to have done so regardless of when you brought it up. 6 Reply 1 13.5k 3
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    Rectangle - First_Pomegranate955 · 9h Partassipant [3] NTA.. someone needs to stand up for Reece. Good on you and I hope she gets extra support now, even if it's just by the grandparents G Reply 363 3 ...
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    Font - Dimirosch · 9h Partassipant [3] NTA Not you embarrassed your aunt, she did. There is a VERY simple solution, just don't play favourits this obvious. Having a 50/50 split in opportunities regarding interests, activities etc might be hard to come by and therefore sometimes one child just has it better than the other but this shouldn't be more than a 45/55 split and not 01/99 split like you describe it. (and the 1 for Reese is actually generous according to your words here) G Reply 4 584 3 +
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    Font - Beegobeego · 9h NTA. I am glad you stood up for Reese. I'd say, keep it up! G Reply 4 358 3 + ...
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    Smile - Pringle_lady · 7h Partassipant [1] NTA, is there any way you can facilitate gymnastics for her, for instance together with your grandma? G Reply 4 44 3 ...
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    Font - NTA. Uncomfortable does not mean wrong. Grandparents were the point of the gathering and they seemed to be interested in this topic. If they didn't say you ruined the celebration, you're fine. Looking away always seems easier. I applaud you for speaking up on Reese's behalf. G Reply 4 19 3 ... +
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    Rectangle - okidokihokipoki · 5h It's always "it wasn't an appropriate time to bring this up" but never "it could've been brought up at a better time, alas life never works out that way, since we're all at the dinner table now we can discuss" G Reply 4 12 3 ...
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    Rectangle - LindaCooper97 · 5h As the oldest child of 4 that has never been loved by either parents, thank you for standing up for Reese, she will always remember this. I wish someone validated my feelings when I was her age. G Reply + ...
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    Font - Drraculaura • 8h NTA. That poor kid... I hope everything works out somehow. G Reply 19 +
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    Font - Difficult-Try-5011 · 7h NTA. And public shaming is always right for AH like your aunt. G Reply ...

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